From watching some people of my surrondings I came to realise that this rage is nothing but jealousy. People don't feel comfortable in their own skin so they take it out on others.
I have experienced this myself. A few people have hated on me because they didn't feel happy in their own skins. I never gave them back the negativity they gave me but it obviously made me feel sad and sometimes angry.
If you do this to other people they might not feel angry because most of the times you don't say things to their face but they will feel sad if they find you've been saying bad things about them.
This post will probably get hate from some people - glad I ain't that popular (yet!) - but I still want to do it because I feel like the people that hate on others may - or may not - find this either helpful or at least interesting, as well as people that, like me, try not to hate on others.
Let's all picture Demi Lovato. She deals with a lot of hate for being larger than what people consider a beautiful size. Now let's picture Taylor Swift. She also deals with a lot of hate because she is "too skinny".
For me both Demi and Taylor are beautiful as they are. There's no such thing as a perfect size, all sizes are beautiful.
The people that hate on D & T for being a certain size are either:
- Jealous of them because they feel beautiful and confident as they are
- They - the haters - just have nothing to do with their lives and they sit all day in front of their computers and they hate on everyone
Now let's say you don't like Perrie Edwards and you think she's fake because she either wears a lot of makeup or because she's just with Zayn for fame. I am a fan of her, obsessed about pretty much anything she does as she's one of my biggest inspirations and I do not see anything fake about her looks or her personality. She is absolutely stunning and from what I know and from what she shows us of her relationship with Zayn, she's absolutely in love with him as he is with her! *I'm fangirling a bit* That hate some people have for her is because they're jealous of her looks, her talent, her personality and her fiancé! Nothing but that...
If you dislike a certain trait you have try to accept it or try to find something you like about yourself and concentrate on that and slowly find ways to accept all your features.
I will make a video with tips on how to be more positive and another video on my ways of accepting my body, my traits, everything about me. Both of those videos will be up soon, hopefully, so make sure you're subscribed to my channel to see them as soon as they're up. Also make sure to follow me on Twitter and check out all my other social media - links on the tabs at the top of the blog :)
Thanks so much for reading. Come back in a few days for a brand new blog post! Until then...
Love,
Carolina Rosalie
